tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post97147723454357462..comments2024-01-26T03:40:17.625-05:00Comments on The Fourth Frog Blog: Looking out for my cubAmyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12547679169487196540noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-9170747521441677272009-02-27T07:55:00.000-05:002009-02-27T07:55:00.000-05:00i don't believe there is anything wrong with your ...i don't believe there is anything wrong with your kids,it's something wrong with the world and all the politically correct people in it. we all have our foibles some small some large, who are we to decide if someone else is a "freak" usually they are just slightly different and thank the Lord for that.Alanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00618710781508544340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-16613453784437238782009-01-27T11:25:00.000-05:002009-01-27T11:25:00.000-05:00THIS Mama Bear totally gets what you're feeling. ...THIS Mama Bear totally gets what you're feeling. One of my cubs has some truly special needs (at 23 yrs old he is mentally around 6--I get it!)...my BEST ADVICE:<BR/>*Be confident in your Mothering skills and in your Child.<BR/>* Take advantage of whatever resources are offered to your family and run with them! They can only help in the long run.<BR/>* Take tissues to the meetings and never apologize if your eyes leak. That is just your mother-heart confirming your love for your son.<BR/>* Be confident in your Mothering skills and in your Child. <BR/>Yes, I know I already said that, but saying it again makes me feel better.<BR/>Hang in there!Momzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01078211684662158122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-85345294654005236682009-01-27T01:57:00.000-05:002009-01-27T01:57:00.000-05:00@ all you guys! Thanks so much for your kind words...@ all you guys! Thanks so much for your kind words and your support. This is one of those "hard to be a parent" times. Keep us in your prayers on Thursday -- and Nate's Mom too, who also has an IEP conference that day. <BR/><BR/>I keep trying to remember, if it doesn't kill me, it'll make me stronger -- or at least justify a giant margarita!Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12547679169487196540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-7779501118956987102009-01-26T20:36:00.000-05:002009-01-26T20:36:00.000-05:00You're right, Robbie is Robbie, great big smile an...You're right, Robbie is Robbie, great big smile and infectious laugh! Remember by filling out that form and seeking help, you're helping him be the best Robbie he can be and avoid all of those "what ifs" that you fear.<BR/><BR/>We love Robbie-Dobbie and YOU!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-36081108453709800832009-01-26T18:51:00.000-05:002009-01-26T18:51:00.000-05:00Growing up my older brothers encountered similar s...Growing up my older brothers encountered similar situations. This was the time before the "advanced" classes were available. Two of my brothers were termed as having mild mental impairments which was seriously incorrect. Rather they were advanced academically beyond their 3rd grade years. I agree with the previous comment, follow your instincts, you know your child, these individuals do not and are more than likely following a standard paper check list.<BR/><BR/>Best of luck Amy <BR/><BR/>EMicah and Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00964011428407773632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-11032775605534902172009-01-26T18:39:00.000-05:002009-01-26T18:39:00.000-05:00I've never had to go through what you are expe...I've never had to go through what you are experiencing. I do, however, work in a middle school and see volumes of kids. All I can tell you is for you to trust your instincts. No one knows your child like you do. None of us wants to be labeled, yet our public school system loves to label & diagnose. Hang in there! Listen to your inner voice!!Jeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00379809799652226409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-12580930689625411512009-01-26T00:40:00.000-05:002009-01-26T00:40:00.000-05:00Amy ~ ((Hugs)) I have also been through this twice...Amy ~ ((Hugs)) I have also been through this twice. We just got Nate diagnosed as ADHD 2 weeks ago. I have known for 2 years, but could not get the dr on board. Anyway, now that we have a diagnosis, we have an IEP meeting this Thurs. I will be thinking of you this week as go through it with you. I hope you get answers that will getthe services Robbie needs. I had mixed emotions about the diagnosis myself, but ultimately, I know it will give him access to the services he needs to learn. Feel free to email me if you want to toss this back and forth.<BR/><BR/>Sheri in CANate's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18188484239439144124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-28379382353726863882009-01-26T00:21:00.000-05:002009-01-26T00:21:00.000-05:00I know just how you feel. I have two with special ...I know just how you feel. I have two with special needs and just went to my latest meeting on Thursday. I blogged about a recent parent teacher conference, I called it the Parent Teacher Cage Match. My goal was to make it out without letting them see me cry. Thanks for sharing this today! Let's me know I'm not alone with some of these issues.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-362426724890845692009-01-25T20:16:00.000-05:002009-01-25T20:16:00.000-05:00Oh gawwssshhhh girl. I feel your pain on this one....Oh gawwssshhhh girl. I feel your pain on this one. Having a special needs daughter, our 5 year old precious princess, we've had to endure many tests and forms similar to what you are describing. Part of our move from Center Grove (Greenwood) to Carmel this year was due to CG's school district ticking me off when it came to Kenidi's services. I don't know if you were following my blog back then or not but boy did the mama bear ever came out in me then. WOW WEE! The move we made to the Northside was the best decision we ever made for her. The schools in Carmel and the services they provide are night -n- day compared to what we got at CG. I'm a CG grad and hate how it all ended up. However, you always have to do what is best for your kids. Remember, you are truly HIS ONLY ADVOCATE when it comes to these things. Hang in there and be FIERCE mamma.<BR/>Hugs, Angie<BR/>www.angelicagracedesigns.com/blog/<BR/>www.angieseamanphotography.blogspot.com/<BR/>www.agdprayerblog.blogspot.com/Angie Seamanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10324553577844192100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-39536073707032280952009-01-25T19:05:00.000-05:002009-01-25T19:05:00.000-05:00I know those assessments all too well! Ironically,...I know those assessments all too well! Ironically, I never had to fill one out until I moved to Indiana, and Gabi had been in school in Florida since she was 3 years old prior to that. I think it is an Indiana thing to make us suffer through those questionnaires! I fit a lot of those things too! I hope your meeting goes well! Is this the IEP?Shannon @ Gabi's Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06489515190295297209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-90512181219230510792009-01-25T10:28:00.000-05:002009-01-25T10:28:00.000-05:00It isn't easy having to fill those things out!! I'...It isn't easy having to fill those things out!! I've had to fill out a similar assessment for my little guy since he's in early intervention due to his hearing impairment. They make you feel like you're a horrible mother even though you aren't and you are doing everything in your power to make sure he leads a normal, happy life! NORMAL isn't easy to achieve now-a-days with all of these assessments and it is all we really want for our kids. Hang in there, Sweetie, one step at a time. Big {{HUGS}} to you and a prayer, too, that all will go well on Thursday!Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15448250477601331161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-933205011038630788.post-81751052798417187482009-01-25T09:59:00.000-05:002009-01-25T09:59:00.000-05:00This is one of those times when there aren't "righ...This is one of those times when there aren't "right" words, i think. So I'll just do the cyber... {{{hugs}}} for now.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there. My parents have gone through quite the battle to get things right for my brother (who is 16). So I kind of understand.Eternal Lizdomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12436844959718198383noreply@blogger.com