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Saturday, July 3, 2010

Did you have a Buzz or a Woody?

I saw Toy Story 3 this morning. I went by myself while rest of my family (who'd already seen TS3) went to see The Last Airbender, which I had no interest in seeing. I was warned in advance to bring tissues. I didn't. And I didn't need them. It's not that I didn't find the ending touching. I did, just not tearfully so. But the movie did make me think about the toys from my childhood.

Unless I just have a really bad memory, I can't think of any toys that I was really attached to. I had a very soft, stuffed koala bear that I remember because my dog chewed off one of the legs. I don't remember the bear before its leg was chewed off. I don't recall the day or the circumstances surrounding the canine attack. I just remember the rough edges of what was left behind, the peachy-orange of stuffing poking out.

We had blocks that were stored in a white cotton sack with a drawstring. I really liked the blocks, but they weren't the kind of toy that you would take to bed with you.

I did have a Barbie phase that I do remember fondly. We lived in Richmond, Indiana. My friend Paige lived across the street and we played Barbies at her house quite often. It seems that Paige's parents were always decorating something in the house, so we would take scraps of carpet and wallpaper and make our own Barbie houses out of cardboard boxes. It seems that we played Barbies in her basement for a long time, every day, listening to the "Free to Be You and Me" album on the record player.

But for as much as I remember enjoying the Barbies, I don't think I ever tucked them in with me at night, took them to church or propped them up at the dinner table next to me. And when we moved from Indiana to Ohio when I was nine, my Barbies mysteriously disappeared. I never saw them again and, oddly, I wasn't upset.

My kids are the same way. We've never had to drive back to some hotel or even a friend's house to retrieve a well-loved doll or stuff animal left behind. Annie had a Bitty Baby, but she wasn't particularly attached. When Charlie was 2, he asked Santa for a Nutcracker and a doll baby. Santa delivered a Beanie Baby Kid dressed in a soccer uniform (a compromise between Mr. and Mrs. Claus). He was happy to have him on Christmas morning, but forgot about him soon after. Robbie has come the closest to having an Andy-like relationship with a toy. When he was a toddler and preschooler, he had Eddie, a Fisher Price little people doll, that he would sleep with and take for nap time at Mother's Day Out. But once Robbie discovered dinosaurs, Eddie lost his appeal. Eddie is still around, as is Bitty Baby and "Charlie," but mostly because they remind me of when my kids were little. I think I am more connected to my children's toys than I ever was to my own or they were attached to them.

I know some kids do have ties to their toys. Annie's friend Olivia had a pink bear named, of all things, Pinka, that went everywhere with her. But for some reason, that's just never been true for me or my children. Maybe that's why I didn't get teary at the end of Toy Story 3. Or maybe I just haven't met the right toy yet.

Did you have a Buzz or Woody or some kind of toy that you were attached to? Do you still have it?

8 comments:

Annie said...

I have two stuffed animals from when I was little. A Dumbo that was my first stuffed animal, given to me by my Godfather/uncle, and a white lamb that used to play Braham's lullaby. Both are stuffed at the top of my closet and rarely seen, but I'm glad I still have them. :)

Mrs4444 said...

Nope. I never did that, either. My kids had blankets that we never allowed out of their bedrooms, and that's about it. We're going to this movie Sunday or Monday, so I only skimmed your post :)

Anonymous said...

I had Doogan, a floppy dog I received for my first Christmas; and Brenda, a Cabbage Patch Kid with a brown yarn pony tail and one tooth. I took them both, with a blanket I called "DD" everywhere with me. They went to college with me. Brenda sits on my daughter's toy shelf now and Doogan sleeps with my youngest (soon to be middle) son. DD is too fragile to be passed along, but I still have it in a box.

Michelle said...

I still have my favorite, Harry the Bear, a medium-sized teddy with a green and white polka-dotted bow tie. I bought it with my own money when I was 5 at Kmart. I made him a birth certificate and took pictures of my dog with him, and of Harry on his own. My daughter now has him. She's not attached to him, but she is attached to a bunny she got when she was a baby and she's now 7. My 9-yr-old son is very attached to his Pooh Bear (which is getting a hole in the butt!). He's had it since he was a baby.

B said...

I LOVED Free to Be You and Me. I listened to it every single night.

I was particularly attached to my Cabbage Patch Doll, Kelsey Lynn. She still sits on my old bed at my parent's house.

jkennedy1882 said...

I had a teddy bear that was given to me the day of my birth. I dragged him everwhere. On my birthday every year my mom would sew a new "suit" for him as he was literally falling apart after many years of hard living. When I was around 8 or 9 he was placed in bags for storage and was accidently thrown out as garbage. I was devastated. I saw TS3 and teared up. I guess perspective is everything.

Amy said...

@jkennedy1882 - Oh, that makes me get a little teary. So sad!

Semi-Slacker Mom said...

My son had a pillow that he was very attached to. It was mine & I got it to take to college in 1993. It was a Polo feather pillow that had been washed about 25 million times & had about 4 feathers left in it. Retro made me get rid of it, so we "recycled" it. When the part where the toys were headed to the fire came on, Bo yells out "Is that what happened to my pillow?" I just about peed my pants!!!